Society know that being a man and
women is very different from each other, since we are born we are starting to
acquire that stigma that boys and girls must be different, so we start
separating things that belongs to a girl or to a boy.
There are many differences between
boy and girl for example girl want a doll to play with it and to make their
doll elegant to look, if you give a doll to a boy it usually making the doll like
a hammer or a weapon that they can use because boys usually like a toy guns,
axe or anything that can use to have an action or to become like one of the
action stars. Boys don’t want a large volume of makeup because it actually making
them look like a clown, girls like wearing large volume of make up because it
making them more elegant to look and now most of the perfume are label if it’s
either for a male or female.
I read some article entitled “TheReal Difference between Boys and Girls” by Anita Sethi, Ph.d. this article
talks about the differences between boys and girls, first she said that they
differ on the motion because boys are more adept at keeping track of moving
objects; recent research shows that boys are about two months ahead of girls
when it comes to figuring out the laws of motion (that if you roll a ball under
a couch, say, it will take a few seconds to pop out on the other side). Secondly
he named this difference as They've got the moves because Girls do talk first,
but boys are likely to start walking -- and hit all the major motor milestones
-- around the same time as girls. Third are those boys tend to be more easily
agitated than girls and have a harder time self-soothing. Fourth is Boys preferred
looking at groups of faces (future teammates, perhaps?) rather than individual
ones. In fact, given the choice, newborn boys would rather look at a mobile
than a single face. Last is that Boys express fear later than girls, and less
often. The author wrote a line that tells” My son turned his doll's crib into a
race car and my daughter was obsessed with shoes.” Then there’s a question flowing
in my mind that why is it when we getting older these enjoying things will stop?
Is it because we know that this is not good enough to do or we just thinking
that our society will going to judge us, this line also tells me that even thou
when we are still a baby we have our differences even thou we have a lack of
mind.
Differences are actually normal to
people because god created us unique and have our different weaknesses and
strengths, we have different talents and we have different abilities that we
can do and others can’t. Differences are not a form of separation to each other
because this will only served for us to know our limitations in life that will
make us better. Sometimes we are making some people different from us because she/he
doing different things but still they are people we just not have the decision
in life. The lessons that I learned is since are birth we have are differences
and we should not add something on it because it will not produce a good effect
on us.
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